Why are some ladies throwing yourself out there just to get attention from men? Why are some ladies ruining people relationships? Why are some ladies accepting cat calling? Why are some ladies throwing themselves on the first date? Why are some ladies think you look so hot in a short dress with high heels? Why are some ladies getting so drunk that they’re walking the walk of shame? Why are you ladies not growing up?
Ladies, you are the pure gold to a man. What do men like about gold? They like them to themselves. Reserve yourself, believe me you will find the one. No one likes a guy or girl that’s been pass around. Your not a hooker, you’re a lady. If you’re a hooker and that’s how you want to make a living, OK well that’s you but you’re not a keeper. Be conservative, you don’t need to be wearing skin showing to attract a man, that’s for you and your man alone. You can still look good with no cleavage, no legs or a tight ass being visible. If your still young and think that’s what guys like, baby girl I’m sorry but when you get old and you don’t have that no more what does he like? Don’t say plastic surgeries because your going to sag either way.
FIRST DATE: Ladies, it’s time to grow up. Stop throwing yourself out there. It’s fine to act interested, but he has to be interest in you too! Or else your throwing away yourself too easy. Don’t try so hard for him to want you! Just be you! If he doesn’t like you, believe me he wouldn’t be stuttering, shaking or even be going out on a date with you! He’s not going to come out for the food that he might have to pay for! Ladies, you got to stop expecting men to pay on the first date! Learn to not rely on a man like that. Your just as hardworking as he is. If he is going to pay for dinner at least pay for something nice after dinner THAT YOU PLANNED OUT. Stop thinking men is supposed to do everything the first date. I hate hearing women out there still expecting men are supposed to pay for everything. It’s not right. Now imagine if you were the man, and don’t say your going to pay for everything because I know you won’t.
Take care of yourself: Eat good and be healthy. It doesn’t hurt to get your nails done every 2 months. But keep them real, you don’t want to have long fake pointy nails that you can’t do anything. Go give yourself a head spa every 6 months, believe me it’s worth it and it feels good. If you live in the city of Vancouver, BC here are places I go to that are good hair salon and nail salons. Do some shopping once a month for yourself, reward yourself after a hardworking months. Have a bubble bath, put on some tunes and have a glass of wine. Eat fruits while your watching television and reading. Give time for you to rewind. Be good to yourself and love yourself.
Pure nail bar: http://www.purenailbar.com/locations.html
I would advise you to go to the one on West 4th because they have great customer service and are patience with customers. If you do pop by there, Thao is the one to go to. I do not advise you to go to the one on Main Street because they don’t have good customer services, they like to gossip about you. They are not gentle.
Luminous nail spa: https://www.facebook.com/Luminousnailspa604/
This is one of best place to get your nails done, if you like them to last long and not break. I advise you to go here! The worker here is wonderful. Linda the boss of Luminous knows what her customer likes, she always makes it feel welcoming. When it gets busy, she actually does people services. Not like other managers who just opens the business and has the workers doing everything. I recommend Lucy and Linda to do your services. Lucy is an amazing woman, she is gentle, takes her time and very patient.
I did my hair treatment, haircut and hair styled here. It’s really relaxing, their hair wash chairs are sofa sit backs, the most comfortable hair wash i ever had. When the weather is cold, your hair becomes dry with dandruff I advise you to get a hair treatment to restore your natural hair.
Just Be You: You don’t look good in a dress like that on a cold weather day. Yes I know you want to look good while you’re partying. You can still look good with nice skinny jeans, a leather jacket with some boots or heels. If your going to party and planning to get drunk please don’t do the walk of shame. As a woman, you look irresponsible, not classy and not independent. I don’t know how many times I’ve said this to girls in the past “know your limits and drink within it!” Were in public, it’s embarrassing for the one who is taking care of you. No one likes taking care of drunk people. It doesn’t matter if your her friend or his girlfriend, you make them look stupid because you can’t control yourself.
Tips for you: Your days are still young but you don’t want to use your young stupid days getting on dirty.com or the most talked about girl. Learn to escape that lifestyle and cherish it more. Work toward goals and not party every weekend. Once you reach your goals and where you want to be, hey then it’s fine do what makes you happy. Be a woman, a classy one that doesn’t give a crap about the outside world, just yourself and your loved ones. Girls, you might say I’m a boring person who stays at home on weekend. I am the person who stays home on weekends, when you found the love of your life, it’s all about spending time with him. You will do everything together. But your still young I can’t tell you what to do with your life, it’s up to you. I’m just the fairy godmother who is here to give you tips on being a better you.